Taking Interest In The Teens
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Teen age comes with the duality of personalities. The children are caught up between the child hood and the youth. Its becomes difficult for them to express their feelings during this age on a daily basis. There is a fear of being misunderstood by their family and parents. The parents too try their level to understand the teens and their thoughts but sometimes, this leads to arguments and fights. One might try to understand the kids, but it is impossible that it can be done in a jiffy. To know the inner feelings of the teen on must take the interest in his likes and dislikes. This is how, the feeling and the bond can be made. The understanding is better by undertaking activities together.
The interest:
Taking interest in the teen’s day to day activities can make the teen feel good about him. The parents can make efforts of knowing the feelings and the emotions of the teens through the activities that he indulges himself into. The teens often take up being alone as their favorite past time, as this is the only time when they think they can be the best. Aggressiveness can be a major factor leading to this. If the child is taking interest in the sports or in music or may be drawing and painting, the parents too must indulge in such activities together with the teen. This way the teen can feel good about his likes and also can talk about his feeling to the parents. To understand the child one must be able to interpret the emotions through the work that he does. His drawings and music can often interpret his own state of mind. Thus the final decision lies on the parents whether they want to take a few steps forward in knowing their child the way they want to. This can wipe off all the grudges and the child can once again be the teen that he wants to with his parents. This way the parents too know their flaws, and their problems with the teens on a large.
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